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Serious Stuff - Gender discrimination - Statistics on rape

Around the world, girls face double discrimination because of their gender and age. Although they may share the same rights as boys, too often girls suffer at the bottom of society held back by additional hardships and barriers

Why, in an era that saw the term 'girl power' coined, are millions of girls being condemned to a life of inequality????Gender discrimination is lamentable and if we need to eradicate this from our society. All of us need to work hand in hand.

At the end of this post, links to other resources on Discrimination Statistics are included

At a very young age a girl’s juvenile mind is overfed by their parents that she should play with dolls and other girly toys. At a later stage she is being told that she is suitable for a specific group of jobs like social work, nursing, care related or similar jobs. In certain instances it is seen that girls are provided with education etc but at the end of the day they are expected to become full time homemakers.

The discrimination lines are drawn at an early stage and by the time the girl has reached her adolescence these lines become darker and deeper. Because of all this hammerings the girl’s subconscious is gets programmed in a certain way and she starts to believe that she only belongs to certain type of jobs and activities.

Then there are women like us, who want to do something. They want to prove that they can perform anything that a man can do and even more.

Women’s empowerment is important, there are women who work harder than most of the men but are paid comparatively less. Some men have a mentality that women should not be in powerful positions and these men try to pull the woman down the corporate ladder.

According to CNN Money, in 2006, there were only 10 women running Fortune 500 companies, and only 20 in the top 1,000. But it’s a start.

I found these sites that provide more information regarding the gender discrimination statistics:

Womens Employment Stats

Urban Ministry Stats

Just a little supplement to the earlier post: Every 26 minutes a woman in India is molested. Every 34 minutes a woman is raped. Every 42 minutes a woman is sexually harassed. Every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. Every 93 minutes a woman is killed. And those are just the cases that are reported.

You cannot do this, you cannot do that because you are a girl.

WTF... !!?

Random Blab

#1: What do you think about Zack? Do you think Zack loves me?

#2: What Zack, who Zack, Zack who?

#1: *humph* Zack Fair ..

#2: Oh …so he is not dark like you but he is fair

#1: grr.. If I am dark you are dark too… remember we are one?? btw I was talking about Zack from FF 7

#2: Uh-huh. Zack loved Aerith and they looked good together and besides he is dead and just a cartoon character.

#1: HE IS NOT A CARTOON!!! HE IS a 3D VIDEOGAME Character, moreover I don’t consider him as a cartoon.

#1: *sob*

#2: ok ok. You win.

#1: *Sob*

#2: Now what?

#1: its heartbreaking that he is dead.. I wish Tetsuya Nomura makes a new FF series and I hope that Zack comes back from the dead cuz he was so so awesome plus he was tall and funny. I don’t understand why people like cloud so much he’s not worth it.

#2: *sleeping……zzzzzzz…. .*

#1: NUMBER 2!!!!! grrrr ..

#2: *Awakens now* Yeah keep talking… I am paying attention to every word. I know, I know, you cherished eating Chinese burger but it is no more available in Md Dee..

#1: ……

If you lounge on a couch, you can be a rapist’s friend

Lazing around the house as its Sunday. I usually don’t read newspaper,
1) I am actually not bothered with what is happening around the world.

2) I don’t have time.

3) Yes I don’t have time, and if I have time, I don’t get the time to read the newspaper as I have some important stuff to do, like surfing the internet, orkutting, or doing myriad other superfluous un things. If you were unaware of the definition of a lazy bum , you at this moment know what is a lazy bum i.e me :D
I should maybe attempt to read online newspaper *Makes a note to herself to read online newspaper for atleast 5 minutes everyday*

So I was actually lazing around on the couch and I saw the newspaper which was lying around unattended on opposite side.. I saw a picture of 3 guys with the cops and it snaps me that oh those must be the guys who got caught in the rape case.

Lets flashback a bit to know what this rape case is all about.

I reside in small town, and it’s a safe place to live. A girl can roam around at any hour here. I even used to go to tuitions at 5 a.m. like 4 years back.

Some weeks back: this girl, like me had tuitions at 5 a.m. Mostly nerds of science stream have tuition classes at 5. (Not that I am a nerd cuz I used to go to tuitions at the same time. I can never be) so instead of going to tuition she goes and meets her friend.

Bundle of stuff is being said about the consequences behind the girl meeting the guy:

1) The guy was JUST her friend and she went to meet this guy at 5 am in the morning to return the book she borrowed from him.

2) The girl and the guy were having a love affair so she went to meet him.
Whatever the reason behind the girl meeting him is actually not my concern.
So in any of the above case, she was sitting with the guy on a bench below an over bridge at 5 am. Yes, both the people the guy and the girl are not more than 17 years of age.

Now three perverts in a car come out of nowhere, and they say that they are cops and its not correct to sit alone a this time of the day.

These pervs apprize the kids to go into the car. Since the kids are just 17 they don’t have the idea. They are just too terrified to object or protest.

1) Because these pervs are made-up that they are cops. (or they are kids ofcops)

2) Your mind stops functioning when someone addresses themselves as cops and declares that you are on the wrong side of the law.

So the kids go into the car. As soon as the kids are in the car. Two of the guys holds the kid and one raped the girl. Once the guy was finished the other raped her. She was raped thrice and I don’t know exactly how much since I don’t read newspapers. But she was raped brutally and everything happened in front of that poor 17 year old boy, just imagine how vulnerable he would be feeling, as he had to witness all this and could not do anything to help his friend.

And the girl? I cant imagine the trauma that she must be going through. Just 17 years of age and was forced, became feast of three monsters.

And do you know how these a**holes were? They raped her while driving and then once they were done they dropped the girl to the same place from where they tricked the kids in the car, besides that they warned the kids to not let anyone know about this thing and come back at the same time the next day(to rape her again?) and if she utters anything , it would not be good since two guys had cop father.

Now imagine this girl raped brutally, she stood up drove back to her home and said everything to her mother… So long story, the guys got arrested the second day. The public is enraged and yes everyone is enraged.. Why would someone do a thing like that? Each individual has a right to do whatsoever they want to do, at any hour (ForGodsSake we are a democracy!). Even if the kids were having an affair, it should not matter. What matters here, is the fact that monsters like these should be punished in a way that no one would have the courage to commit this type of misdemeanor again. The News say that these pervs had a history of doing notorious and illicit things, I’ve even heard that these guys have killed a prostitute and molested a lot more. They have a history of doing things like this.. not rape but this kind of stuff.

They are now arrested, they have been badly flogged by the public.. I don’t think scars like these are removed from a girls psyche, even if she gets married, whatever may happen she is emotionally and physically broken and these vandals should be punished in the most severe way. These effects of rape will stay for years and years to come.

7 years of imprisonment and again the guys will be free. What kind of justice is this? You commit a dire crime like rape and you are liberated after some years or lockup? I mean whats the guarantee that they wont commit a crime like this again? 7 years of jail will make these people coarser and they may come back with more lust and would want to rape more girls (God knows what goes on in a rapists mind!)

These rapists should be condemned in a way that would teach these people a lesson, something that would make them remorseful of what they have done. Something that is hard enough.

So back to the current day where I see the news paper and the three guys with cops. I’ve always wanted to know how these rapists looked like, till now I never got a chance to see them as they were mostly veiled. Today I see three guys with cops without the covering. I think that they can be those rapists, I quickly jump off the couch to seize the newspapaer and I see the photograps of these guys .. read some text roughly that was below the picture to make sure that these are the rapists.

Yes they are, as per the newspaper. I look at all these guys and I feel that the younger guy looks somewhat similar to a guy I had an acquaintance with during school years. I utter “Oh that guy looks like Goldie!!”

Now Shaun comes up and he says that this guys name is also “Shaun”.. What Shaun!!?? OMG!!! Yes Goldie’s name is also SHAUN.. within our group we used to labeled him as Goldie cuz he had a Golden colored bike. I never got to talk to him or something. Goldie was a friend of my friend Ned. He often used to come with Ned to school or at tuition. I am like I never talk to people unless they talk to me (Goldie tried to talk but I was uncomfy talking) or unless I am get to meet the person everyday and that person happens to be working or sitting nearby me. Or I am bored and no one is around. So this was not the case with Goldie.

Goldie always had this impish stare, he seemed like a flirt. I have seen Goldie roaming around a lot of times. Thank goodness I never talked with Goldie. I think he had some sorta record with females too, like a lot of girlfriends and all.

Goldie looks like normal and not actually smart but yes he’s something that girls may like. Uh. I am a girl but hez not my cup of tea. I thank Goodness that hez not my cup of tea.

I am kind of bemused and bewildered that Golidie did something like. I mean that’s kind of sickening to have an acquaintance with a rapist. How bad it that?

I am a good girl and keep good company.

Some days back Sharon called me we were talking all our stuff like usual and then she said that Goldie followed her (as far as I remember she also said that he was having some Uncle type friends with him, I suppose those fellow rapists) while she was driving, when she came home, these guys were roaming around the building maybe they thought that she would come again and I do not event want to think what could have happened..At that time I felt bad .. I mean how could Goldie follow Sharon, as she also had an acquaintance with him. Eww!!! And you don’t follow people you know.

-Tanzy is acquainted with a rapist, what more one would want

If you cant shake your booty, dont ogle, Okay?

NO. I am not going to talk about work or study today . So I save you from the twinge :D

Heheh I know you get bored, reading my stuff that you just read it half way and skip reading the whole post. Ah well. No worries I am still going to write and I am still going to blabber and know what I love you for reading this : p

Well I haven’t yet started with the post and already started going astray.

Well I’ve been thinking and doing some crazy things lately.

Crazy Stuff #1:

My latest fave song was (yeah it was and not is :p) Forget It – Breaking Benjamin. Like any normal person I like to watch videos of my fave songs. Now I have this thing for Final Fantasy 7 ( Crisis Core and Advent Children). I shall talk on the subject of FF sometime later.

So I visit YouTube and rummage around for breaking Benjamin + Final Fantasy vii and the end result was this vid

Well Mum wasn’t around today and I was watching this vid and now if you watch this vid. You’ll notice the girl (FYI: her name is Yuna) has this broom like thing in her hand while she was walking in the water body. [Btw you’re not obliged to watch it :p] When she reached the water body she starts dancing and I found it as absolutely amusing and all that. Now I am very jiggy and when I watch the vid and I feel like I need to imitate this

Random Useless Facts about me: I am totally effin stiff. My muscles can’t move. I can’t dance and I look like a dork.

But who cares I was in the mood to imitate her.

Problem: TO dance exactly like her, I need the prop that she uses while dancing

My lil brain is racing now; I start to think of all the possibilities. I bend down and begin to look for this stick which my dad keeps to shoo animals or Idk for what reason we have it at our place.. But hey I need it … Even after a lot of searching I am not able to locate that.


I am not going to surrender. I have to imitate her today!! So the little birds in my brains are still running and then all of a sudden I find the perfect prop for me. Plus it looks like the prop that Yuna is using.

Firstly I view the video once more so that I can imitate exactly like she does and then I start dancing (jumping/Moving my lazy self?) I clutch the prop in my hands the way she does (I by now start to feel amazing) and then I start moving the prop like she does.. I feel so happy and bouncy, needless to point out that this was a sight that no one can stand.. hahah a name like me jumping /moving .. I bet it was nothing like ‘dance’ but it was fun (for me atleast).

I can move only one part of my body at a time... for instance when I am moving my hands... I cant gracefully move my legs and torso.. hahhahha … I am such a nerd..

Crazy Stuff #2

I was riding back home on my bikey and listening to a motivational happy-go-lucky song and I get high. Hahah without weed.

I am already riding with high velocity but then I feel like closing my eyes and driving at the same velocity.

You know it’s an amazing feeling to be able to close your eyes and driving. I don’t trust anyone else with driving, I’ve tried you know closing my eyes (partially) and believe me it gives an awe-inspiring feeling.

Doing stuff like this makes me feel so damn happy and I bear a colgate smile on my

- I promise Tanzy did not booze

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